1. In what general geographic area would we like to wed?
2. In what season would we like to wed?
3. Is it important to us to get married outside?
4. Do we want a wedding planner?
5. What would our ideal time of day to get married be?

Here are my answers. You can answer in the comments! It's important to be honest. "Don't care" is a perfectly reasonable answer if it's your final answer.
1. SF CA
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3. No, as long as wherever we have the ceremony feels spacious and beautiful.